Welcome
If things feel confusing, heavy, or unsafe right now, you’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Nico Leban, a Relationship Therapist and Coach based in London. I help couples rebuild trust after betrayal and emotional disconnection, and I work with couples and individuals who feel stuck, disconnected, or unsafe in their relationship and want clarity, honesty, and real change.
This work isn’t about quick fixes or pretending everything is fine. It’s about understanding what’s really happening beneath the surface and rebuilding emotional safety so you can decide what comes next.
When couples don’t feel like a team anymore.
Some couples come because trust & communication have slowly broken down.
✔️ You keep having the same arguments.
✔️ You feel misunderstood, unheard, or emotionally distant.
✔️ Intimacy feels forced or gone.
✔️ Passion has faded, and resentment has quietly taken its place.
Others come because something feels off, even if nothing dramatic has happened.
You don’t feel like a team anymore.
You love each other, but you don’t feel close.
Whether trust was broken suddenly or the connection eroded over time, the pain often feels the same.
✕ Loss of safety.
✕ Loss of closeness.
✕ Loss of the relationship you thought you had.
This space is for couples and individuals who want to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and who are willing to face it honestly, with real support and professional guidance.
When Trust Breaks...
After betrayal, people don’t struggle because they stopped caring. They struggle because their body no longer feels safe. You can still feel love and at the same time feel on edge, disconnected, hypervigilant, and unsure of what’s real. That kind of fracture affects everything sleep, health, intimacy, focus, and your sense of self.
Everything Changes!
One of the most painful experiences for couples is when one or both partners start searching for love, validation, or connection somewhere else. Not because the relationship meant nothing, but because something inside felt unmet, unseen, or unsafe to speak about. When this happens, trust collapses and confusion takes over.
MY MISSION
I work with couples who are exhausted from hurting, waiting, and not knowing what to do next. Most people were never taught how to build a safe, honest relationship or how to repair one when trust breaks. So they stay stuck in confusion, conflict, or quiet distance for far too long.
My work is about reducing that pain and lost time. I guide couples through truth toward clarity helping them rebuild trust after betrayal, improve communication, restore intimacy, and break the patterns that keep repeating.
I help people move from feeling unseen, unsafe, and lost to feeling grounded, supported, and clear about what comes next.
I don’t take sides and I don’t rush decisions. I help couples slow things down enough to understand what actually happened, why it hurt the way it did, and what safety would need to look like now. Whether you’re deciding to rebuild or unsure if you can, my role is to create a space where honesty is possible, responsibility is shared, and both people feel heard without being blamed or dismissed.
COUPLE'S COACHING
INDIVIDUAL COACHING
CLARITY QUIZ
KIND WORDS
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